Who doesn't want to be liked by others—to be appreciated and noticed whenever they enter a room or a social setting. We all do, don't we? But is merely dreaming about being acceptable enough, or are you actually going to do something to command people’s attention?
To be liked and respected by others, you must be attractive, both on the inside and the outside. Merely being a pretty face is simply not enough—you should also possess a personality that people can't get over easily and be become someone they want to communicate with and like to be around.
To help you transform into such a person, today we're looking at a few easy ways that will make it hard for people to resist your charm. So gear up, grab your cuppa, and start taking notes.
1. Be Kind and Humble
Nobody likes people who complain endlessly about everything or don't talk politely to those around them. In comparison, they love those who put on a smile no matter what they're going through while also being humble and kind to others. As per a study conducted in 2014, people with positive personalities have a more attractive face than those with negative ones. So, rather than being grumpy all the time, put on a smile, be humble, and witness the magic for yourselves.
2. Always Keep Your Chin Up
It is a fact that symmetrical faces are percieved to be more beautiful and get more attention than others. Now, the easiest way to get it right is by keeping our chin up. Maintaining an upright posture for your body as well as your face not only gives you a sharp look but also shows attributes like confidence, self-assuredness, and boldness. Above all, it makes more heads turn and after all, isn't that what we're aiming for?
3. Work on Your Sense of Humor
For many a millennia, people have be attracted to humor and being funny is a very charming trait indeed. Daniel Doerksen, who led a study on the effects of humor on attractiveness, says if someone isn't funny, he/she will surely be perceived as less attractive. On the other hand, if someone has a good sense of humor, people will be attracted to him/her like a moth to a flame.
4. Be a Good Listener
Blabbering all the time or talking about yourself continuously isn't a trait that is normally associated with attractive people. Rather, it’s people who are good listeners and hear out other people's thoughts and problems who we tend to gravitate towards. As per researchers at the University of Melbourne who studied moth mating patterns and used the theory on humans, women are more attracted to men who listen to them. Now that’s one dating advice that could come in handy if you come across that special someone who you really want to hold onto.
Wrapping it Up
Getting along with others is an art in and of itself but mastering this social chellenge isn't impossible either. Just go through the above-mentioned points and see the difference for yourself!